Labels are funny

Lately I've been spending more time thinking (you get a lot of time doing that when you're single, I've found...), especially about who I am and what I mean to both myself and to others.

The most intersting part about this is what others have to say about me. I've heard the following about me:

nice
weird, in a "good" way
a good routesetter
a mystic

That last one was the funniest. I don't mean to but I suppose I come off as sounding "mystic" sometimes. I wish I could do some scrying wih a crystal ball - I'd never see the light of day b/c I'd just be watching what other people are/would be doing all day long. It's like reality TV for free... sorta...

I do often wonder what other people think of me. Ratoinally it really shouldn't matter, but I still want to know. I really hate being socially rejected, I've discovered, and I usually like to have an idea of where I tend to stand with people. The most fascinating part I think is that no matter what I do, I always seem to come off as "nice" - whether I truly feel friendly or I feel like I wish to be more than friends. I guess I shouldn't complain - it's a nice trait to have when meeting the "in-laws". :)